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What is Coming of Age?

Coming of Age in the Unitarian Universalist tradition is a program and a rite of passage for youth, usually in the 12- to 14-year-old age range.

Participation in a Coming of Age program helps young people make the transition from the children’s program to the youth and young adult communities in our congregation.

Frequently participants in the Coming of Age program develop a strong group identity that supports them in staying active with the intergenerational church community at a time when most adolescents are drifting away.

Young participants investigate their personal spirituality and are encouraged to develop a sense of what they believe, through discussion, listening to guest speakers, and participating in retreats and workshops.

As a group or individually, social action or social service projects are often part of a program. Participants learn together about leadership, relationships, and sexuality.

The program generally closes with a celebratory Sunday service at which the young participants may share their credo statements and other products of their participation such as songs, dance, and readings. The adult congregation and the youth group welcome the young people to expanded involvement.

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